For some unknown reason there seems to a trait within humanity which seems to feel the need to say mean and/or malicious things about people behind their backs. I have never understood this mentality; as a result if someone is doing something that I don't like I will attempt to discuss this with them. Whilst this does mean that I don't have alot of friends as some find that level of honesty a little disturbing or weird, those that are my friends are equally honest to me. This means fewer fall outs...in fact I don't think me and those I truely call friends have ever fallen out; have even worked with 2 of them. I am not saying we have never disagreed but we deal with it like adults and discuss it instead of the whole "he said, she said" and backstabbing that causes nothing but misery.
If you are truely friends then there is no need for all the deception and if you don't particularly like the person either stay away from them or in cases such as at work deal with them in a professional manner then forget about it. At least then everyone knows where they stand and their isn't the drama that ultimately lands most people in hot water.
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